here’s to shutting up

13 08 2009

I have come to the realization that I am one of those annoying people that has trouble listening because I am too busy formulating what I want to say next.   Yeah, by most accounts that makes me a real a$$hole (Sorry I ruin so many conversations, Sarah).   So in a fit of self-improving motivation mixed with an equal part self-loathing, I have decided to experiment with shutting up.

Here is the plan for the next week or so:

1)  In an effort to listen I will only speak when I am spoken to or if I need to communicate (like if I am in a drive-through or at the bank teller window.

2) Wear headphones and listen to music.  This by its very  nature is an introverted activity.  Also, it is one-way…I can’t communicate back to the music so therefore I am listening. When I listen to music, I feel relaxed, receptive and somehow enriched.

The goal here is to see if there is enough positive reinforcement from results that I can actually change something about myself, something in my personality.  I have to admit, the prospect of changing my personality is a bigger challenge than quitting cigarettes or not cracking my knuckles.  This is not a habit– this is a part of my personality, ingrained into who I am (or at least who I think that I am).

I’ll update this post in a while to share how it is going/failing/succeeding.  I am a little excited and scared to see if I can change something.  The thing that worries me the most is that I am frickin’ lazy and I know that it is really easy for me to forget commitments.  So, Interwebs, I post this as some sort of contract or public announcement that I am going to try it.  Hopefully knowing that this post is out there I will be more likely to do it.

Eek, I’ll check in soon.





oh, blog,um – hi, I didn’t expect to run into you…

7 07 2009

It has been awhile, dear blog. 

Between Twitter, PS3, and sheer laziness I have not really been paying much attention to you.  Let me give you the Reader’s Digest version of the last few months…

Sarah and I celebrated our 5th wedding anniversary by taking a cruise to the Bahamas.  We had never cruised before, so we opted for a 3 day cruise so that we could dip a toe into it before committing to a longer one. I am happy to report that 3 days and 2 nasty sunburns, and 1 lovely time spent with my wife  later we think that a cruise is a wonderful vacation for the indecisive and lazy (you know, us).

I also joined a gym and started running again and managed to lose about 13 lbs before the cruise. SPOILER ALERT:  Soon I will post a message about how my pot belly has returned and my I am mad at myself for throwing all my hard work away.

Oooo, and here is biggie: We finally sold the house in Kansas City. (THANK YOU BABY JEEBUS!) Then we bought a new car (FORGIVE ME BABY JEEBUS!). However I am happy to report that Sarah is going to let me make a celebration beer to mark the successful real estate transaction anyway, but it will have to wait until the weather cools off a bit.

Sarah also picked me up a new 2GB iPod Shuffle to replace the 1 GB iPod Shuffle that didn’t survive a second trip through the washing machine(Oh, um, Hi Sarah…did I say second? I meant first, I swear *gulp*!)

We are also trying out the Getting Things Done system for personal productivity.  Looks like I can remove “Update my stale blog” from the “@computer” list…

Well, I hope to visit with you again dear blog.  I promise it won’t be so awkward next time.





this is a refreshing and sensible reason…

23 02 2009

…for bailing out homeowners.  As an owner of two homes, and one of them on the market for nearly a year now, cratering home values is a great concern to me and feeds this growing black hole of toxic mortgages.





finally…

13 02 2009

Some of the major lenders are imposing a temporary moratorium on foreclosures. Check out the full story





sad day

10 02 2009

We thought that we were close to a deal on our house when it fell through. The lender approved the buyer and then when they asked for another verification of employment, they changed their minds…*sigh*. Trying to keep the chin up…





still need a tenth…

6 02 2009

You can check out my top 9 (soon to be 10, I’m not very decisive) albums of 2008 here.





congratulations, senator

5 11 2008

Congratulations Mr. Obama.  I have never been as hopeful for the future of my country as I am at this moment.





the reason that your 401(k) is in the sh*tter

26 10 2008

Commodity Futures Modernization Act of 2000:

From Wikipedia:

“…The act has been cited as a public-policy decision significantly contributing to Enron’s bankruptcy in 2001 and the much broader liquidity crisis of September 2008 that led to the bankruptcy filing of Lehman Brothers and emergency Federal Reserve Bank loans to American International Group[1] and to the creation of the U.S. Emergency Economic Stabilization fund…”

“…it would appear that the House and Senate versions of the bill were introduced just prior to the Christmas holiday in December of 2000, following George W Bush’s (first) election (in November of 2000), while then-President Clinton was serving out his final days as President. The bill was never debated by the House or Senate. The bill by-passed the substantive policy committees in both the House and the Senate so that there were neither hearings nor opportunities for recorded committee votes. In substance, it appears that the leadership of the Republican-controlled Senate and House incorporated the deregulation of credit default swaps into an omnibus budget bill (without hearings or recorded votes)at a time when the outgoing president was in no position to veto anything.”

It appears that the House and Senate version of the Bill had a total of 10 sponsors, 8 Republican and 2 Democrats…so when the finger-pointing begins, 80% of them can be pointed to the right.





florida, florida, florida!

23 10 2008

I really hope that this election does not end up like 2000 and 2004.  I hope that we know who the next President is as soon as possible because I am getting tired of being obsessed with 2008 political coverage.  It has gotten to the point that I can name more pundits, anchors, and other assorted political talking heads than I can politicians.

Let’s give it a whirl off the cuff, in no order and including bloggers:

Keith Olbermann, Rachel Maddow, David Gergen, Lou Dobbs, Chris Matthews, Mike Barnicle, Pat Buchanan, Eugene Robinson, David Meacham, Richard Wolffe, Joe Scarborough, Roger Simon, Tina Brown, Andrea Mitchell, David Gregory, Matt Cooper, Walter Shapiro, Lawrence O’Donnell, Joan Walsh, Jeanne Cummings, Bill Maher, Chuck Todd, Tucker Bounds, Tucker Carlson, Paul Begala, Gwen Ifill, Paul Krugmann, Bill Kristol, Maureen O’Dowd, John King,Wulf Blitzer, Contessa Brewer, Norah O’Donnell, Bill O’Reilly, Sean Hannity, Rush Limbaugh, Hugh Hewitt…ugh

 

PS:  I miss you Tim Russert…





to the pundits!

4 10 2008

 

I watched the Vice Presidential debate the other night…admittedly to watch Sarah Palin crash and burn. However, she did much better than expected. Good for her that the expectations were set so low.

 The point here is that though she made it through the debate relatively unscathed, my impression of her did change immensely. I no longer feel that Sarah Palin is incompetent and unfit–she is incompetent, unfit, AND dangerous.

To put on an air of folksy charm in order to relate to the common voter is the making the unfortunate–but accurate– assumption that the common voter is an idiot. Those holding office at the federal level should be the best and the brightest that our nation has to offer. I found her confidence in her talking points and position discomforting since they were rooted in something Stephen Colbert refers to as “truthiness”… it has the sound of truth and common sense, without the annoying hassle of facts to back it up.

Why is this dangerous? Had Sarah Palin strode across that stage and gave a repeat performance of the CBS interview with Katie Couric would have knocked the wind out of the conservative base’s support for the ticket. Instead, Palin set the bar low and then stepped over it gingerly at the debates giving the campaign a much needed break from bad press. This puts her that much closer to the Executive/Legislative branch (since she seems to think that the constitution gives the VP more flexibility in the Senate).

McCain selected his VP for purely political reasons. He knew that the conservative evangelical base was not enthusiastic enough about his candidacy too put him comfortably ahead of Obama. Included in this calculation was the chance poach disaffected Hillary Clinton supporters who were upset about her loss and the subsequent circle-jerk sideshow at the DNC.

While this strategy paid off in the short term, the obvious lack of vetting of Palin and the campaigns refusal to allow her to talk to the media quickly began to erode her new found popularity. Then came Charlie Gibson, the Sean Hannity softball-fest, and Couric. The pundits began to set the expectations for Palin’s encounter with Biden very low.

Not helping matters either was the top half of the ticket. In the span of 2 weeks McCain stuck his foot in his mouth about the “fundamentals of the economy”, spun the definition of the economic fundamentals, and had a very curmudgeony meltdown in front of the Des Moines Register editorial board that did him no favors given his reputation for cantankerous and abrasive behavior.

Of course the largest nail in the tire of the McCain/Palin “Straight Talk Express” was the current economic crisis that began with Fannie Mae and Freddie Mac and most recently claimed Wachovia. This sparked one of John McCain’s famous campaign suspensions (remember the 1999 Kosovo issue?). However after “suspending” his campaign and making a big production of heading to Washington to give Congress a push for the bailout, Congress ultimately did it without him and many would argue that he actually impeded the progress.

Adding this all together–including how throughout the entire process Obama was cool, collected and even Presidential in front of cameras while McCain seemed annoyed–it was a very bad 3 weeks for the Republican ticket. McCain had pushed a very large pile of chips to the center of the table and only to have the his own party in the House sweep those chips over to Obama.

So now everything was on Palin’s shoulders…and she managed to eke out a minor victory for the Republicans. While not victorious in the debate, she managed to save herself from becoming a campaign trail joke for decades.

 Her performance may have given the the McCain/Palin ticket the breathing room it needs to allow them to squeak out a Republican win in November and put her one cliché closer to the Presidency.  Ah, the soft bigotry…

 

 

 








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